Flourishing happens naturally when you are at home in yourself and in life!
Tired of trying to fix yourself so that you can finally relax and be okay in your own skin?
Tired of trying to fix life (your circumstances, other people) so that you can finally enjoy being here?
Come Home to your Unique Self
Most of us believe that if we were stronger, happier, married, single, more outgoing, more successful, less sensitive, more disciplined, more healed, more (fill in your favorite fantasy __________), then life would be better somehow. And who wouldn't want a permanent improvement in themselves, right?
I would like to suggest a radical notion here: we don't actually want to be different than who we are. At the most fundamental level, I believe that we want - - to take off the mask and know ourselves deeply, and - - to have the permission, safety, and freedom to then be who we really are - to feel that our real self belongs here, is loved, and is wanted in the world, sensitivity, flaws and all.
The words 'personal transformation' tend to evoke an image of ourselves that is qualitatively better than how we are right now. Often, what's underlying our desire for change is the belief that we are currently somehow deficient.
Thus, the transformation that I support in my clients is one of coming home to themselves in this fundamental way. It is the shift from holding back and stifling yourself, to allowing the Self to express all its glory, brilliance, and genius, as well as it's rich humanity and perfect imperfections.
This transformation is about becoming who you most authentically are, and expanding into the potent and delicious fullness of your whole being. It is awakening into your full spectrum - from unbounded consciousness to the exquisite uniqueness of your embodied incarnation including your body, mind, psyche, and soul.
The wonderful thing about this process is that it is primarily about relaxing! You get to learn what happens when you gradually stop trying to change, fix, improve, accept, or escape yourself or your life. All that energy you use to defend, protect, manipulate, manage, and strive becomes liberated as you relax into who you really are.
Another outcome is that much of the old, unconscious conditioning that blocks your authenticity and vitality can be truly healed, reducing and often eliminating its debilitating impacts on your life.
Although this healing process takes time, in my experience it is so worth it!
Thus, as you relax and awaken into the fullness of who you really are, you to become more permanently:
free to enjoy and express your True Self and bring your unique gifts into the world
able to create a lifestyle that fits you better and allows you to thrive
engage in relationships with more intimacy, integrity, and ease
feel deep connection with others and with the world at large
able to relax and trust yourself and trust Life
"I have known Margit for 20 years and have taken many of her workshops. She is very skilled in creating a safe space for people to explore even the most deep and tender feelings and experiences. Margit's creativity, modeling, compassion, presence, and humor make her a trustworthy guide for whatever your Being wants to feel, express, or let go of. As a longtime seeker of truth and authentic expression, Margit has truly journeyed the territory she accompanies others through. You will feel met in the core of your Being by this remarkable, soul-full woman."
~ Eileen Keller, LMHC, Therapist and Mindfulness Teacher
Delight in Your Creativity
Do you have a creative talent or dream that you've put on hold for too long?
Do you tend to sabotage your creative process by not getting started, not working consistently on your project, or not completing something?
All of us are naturally inventive beings, and as such, creativity is our birthright. As a species, we are intelligent, curious, and adaptive. Our amazing imagination keeps us moving forward towards an infinite horizon of possibilities.
When you watch children at play, you'll see this spontaneous creativity in action. Each child expresses it differently according to their abilities, interests, and temperament.
Somehow, most of us lose much of this imaginative interplay with each other and with our environment as we get older. We get stuck in habits and are weighed down by responsibilities and expectations.
Life becomes work. Time becomes crunched. We focus on efficiency, productivity, and taking care of business. Our creative dreams and impulses get relegated to the 'back burner.'
And one day, if we're lucky, we notice that the clock is ticking, that our soul is drying up, and that life has lost some color and feels more like shades of grey.
We become jealous of people who are living creative, colorful lives, and think to ourselves that "we should be more creative." We take an evening class in drawing or guitar.
This temporarily gives us a little life-juice, but we're still trying to add yet another "To Do" to our already overflowing list.
The problem is that we already ARE a vast fountain of creativity, and trying to make ourselves be more creative is a dead-end street. We'll exhaust ourselves trying.
Instead, we need to look closely at what prevents us from accessing and expressing our imagination, and living a creative life... including giving birth to and completing creative projects.
If we can recognize how we block our natural genius and creative impulses, then it becomes possible to liberate them!
As blocks soften, heal, and dissolve, you become more free to express your creativity in your favorite artistic medium(s).
But equally important, you become more free to live a creative life - spontaneously responding to events and situations in new ways, and opening to curiosity and play.
Creative flow becomes a way of life!
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